Saturday, 13 April 2024

Love, Nuance and Lloyd Dobler (Movie Review: Say Anything)

 The iconic scene of Lloyd Dobler blasting Peter Gabriel's 'In your eyes', from a held-up stereo outside Diane Court's window transcends generations.


For many, it's a potent symbol of young love, a yearning captured in a single, unforgettable image. This was certainly the case for me. As a child catching a glimpse of the film on a random cable channel, the scene lodged itself in my memory. Even though the nuances of the story and characters were entirely lost on me, a peculiar notion took root: if a boy ever held a stereo aloft beneath my window, that person would be "the one."  Looking back, this memory (and the subsequent absence of stereo-wielding suitors) brings a smile to my face.

Revisiting "Say Anything" as an adult offered a vastly different experience. Gone were the simplistic expectations of childhood. The film revealed itself to be far more than a fluffy teen romance. Beneath the surface lie complex layers, particularly in the portrayal of Diane's relationship with her overprotective father. Their dynamic, though flawed and at times suffocating, is undeniably touching.

However, it would be disingenuous to deny the enduring appeal of Lloyd Dobler. His unwavering dedication to Diane is a testament to the power of genuine love. In a world often cynical about relationships, Lloyd's sincerity is a breath of fresh air. His ability to charm me twice (as an 11 year old child and as a 26 year old woman) speaks volumes about the character. One can't help but root for him, and perhaps even harbor a secret wish for a real-life Lloyd to grace the world with his kindness.


"Say Anything" is a beautiful tapestry woven with the threads of love, family, and the bittersweet realities of growing up. For those seeking a glimpse into a bygone era of romance, or simply a deeper understanding of human connection, this film is a must-watch. It transcends generations, offering a timeless perspective on the complexities of life and love, all delivered with a touch of old-world charm.




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